Why are men so hard to buy for? (and how to fix that)

Every year, the same struggle—birthdays, anniversaries, or special occasions—cue the panic of finding a gift for him. You ask what he wants, and he hits you with “I don’t know, I don’t need anything.” Great. 

So why is it so difficult to shop for men? And more importantly, how do you fix it?

The problem: Why are men so hard to buy for?

1. They don’t think they need anything
   Most men don’t spend time making wish lists. They've got all the essentials already and if they want something, they just buy it—leaving you with no clues.
   
   

2. They’re creatures of habit
   From aftershave to favourite snacks, they stick to what works. New is a tough sell, they like what they like, and they stick to it.
   
   

3. They’re not as vocal about their interests
   Some guys are easy (football, beer, gadgets). Others? Total mystery. They won’t say what they want, so it feels like you’re guessing in the dark.
   
   

The fix: How to nail gifting for men every time

1. Think of what he loves—Then upgrade it
   If he’s into coffee, don’t just grab a coffee from your local café. Rise & Grind upgrades his ritual with specialty beans, a sleek cup, and a cap—perfect for that Sunday stroll. Or go stealth mode with The Discreet Coffee Addict swapping the cap for breath spray (because, well… coffee breath). Basically, take what he already loves and make it better.
      

2. Pair gifts with an experience
   Men love practicality, but they also love a good experience. The Night Cap isn’t just a whisky hamper—it’s a whole evening ritual, complete with premium treats to match.
   
   

3. Get him something he wouldn’t buy himself
   The sweet spot? Something he’ll use but wouldn’t think to buy—like The Beer Necessities, a complete experience packed with craft brews and all the little extras that turn an ordinary drink into something special. 
   
   

4. Make it effortless (for you, too)
   Gift shopping for him can be as easy as picking flowers for her. With Himper, we make it simple, so you can focus on what matters.
   
   

Because buying gifts for men doesn’t have to be hard, when you know where to look.